Adults Only: Ladies, See How to Win ‘His Heart’ in The Bedroom
1. Outside the room Being the best isn’t only about what you
do in bed, but also what you do out of bed. For a steamy night, start
by spicing things up outside the bedroom. When he’s at work, text him a
naughty message that will drop a hint about what he should expect when
he gets home or go out for a romantic dinner. If he’s had a long day,
treat him to a sensual massage. The little s*xy things you do outside
the bedroom count in a big way.
2. Get wet, go!
When we talk about s*x, wetter is better. Don’t be afraid to use
lubricant to make things better in the bedroom. Lubricants enhance
sensation and make things under the sheet more pleasurable. You could
use some lube while giving him a hand job too. Trust us, he will love
you for this.
3. Don’t be afraid to experiment…
Being experimental and adventurous in bed is a trait most
men look for in their women. You don’t have to force yourself to bring
out the whips and costumes if you’re not into that kind of stuff but
don’t say no to everything without even trying it. You could start with
subtle stuff like blindfolds and massage oils. He will appreciate the
effort and will have a hard time forgetting the s*xy night.
4. Get down and dirty It’s no secret that guys love it when
their women go down on them. A lot of women frown upon the idea of a
blow job. But if you want to be the best, you got to get down and dirty,
girls. Try not to be mechanical about it and enjoy yourself when you go
down on him. He will treasure you all his life.
5. Eye contact Make sure you make eye contact with your man
next time you’re in bed with him. There’s something very intimate and
sensual about making eye contact especially when you’re so close to
someone. Don’t stare him out as that can be plain creepy. But soft
glances here and there are cute. Also, looking him in the eye confirms
that you’re confident about yourself, which can be a huge turn on.
6. Initiate It’s a huge turn on for a man, if a woman makes
the first move. It makes him feel desired and loved and who could say no
to that? If you want to be the ultimate s*x goddess in bed, don’t wait
for him to make the first move. Take matters in your own hands and give
him the time of his life.
7. Take control Most women like playing coy in bed and allow
their men to take control. But, to be the best in bed you have to take
control of the situation once in a while. Tie him up and treat him to
some amazing moves. He won’t forget the night for a long time.
8. Dirty talk The thing about talking dirty is that it can
either be very s*xy or a turn off. You have to do this tactfully to not
sound crass. You could read er*tic novels to get the drift or practise
by talking dirty to yourself during your alone time. If it sounds stupid
to you, then keep practising till you feel good about it before using
it on him. Dirty talking is a rare quality in women, so he is sure to
cherish it.