(ARTICLES) Sex Before Marriage!! 5 Good Reasons Why Every 'Nigerian' Couple Should Practice it [A must read]
1. Sexual chemistry.
A lady, Jessica, who kept her "purity" until her wedding night, said this about her tasteless marriage:
Our bodies wanted different things from one another,
so what we ended up with was a horizontal
battle. I would hear married girlfriends talk about the joys of make-up
sex and continue to sip my coffee in silence. We would fight, and then
have bad sex and then fight some more. Every flaw in our marriage and in
him seemed much more miserable when combined with the possibility of
faking orgasms until death did we part. There was no relief. Six months
into our marriage, the idea of separating seemed more appealing than
feigning headaches for the rest of my life.
As Jessica found out, sexual chemistry is something that can
really only be ascertained by, well, having sex. Jessica would make out
for hours with her husband before their marriage, so she thought that
would translate into awesome horizontal mambo. Unfortunately, it didn't.
2. Sexual identity.
What if your partner is gay and he/she doesn't even know it? There
are too many couples where one partner was able to cover up his or her
true sexual persuasion because he or she simply didn't made love with
anyone. Cos not having sex with the opposite sex means you ignore those
longings you might have for the same sex, and therefore don't
acknowledge them.
3. Sex itself.
Not everyone is great in bed, and most people don't start out very
good at all. A lot of good sex is about listening to your partner and
being able to respond accordingly. But how do you know if someone is a
good listener or responder unless you try it first?
4. Size.
Don't you want to know if your husband is packing a hunting rifle
or a tiny little plastic kid's pistol? After all, he knows how big your
"oranges" are. I'm not saying size should be a dealbreaker, but don't
you have the right to know what's down there?
5. Sexual issues.
Sexual problems like premature ***********, inability to get an
erection, or even an allergy to your partner’s semen are all
possibilities, wouldn't you rather deal with those issues before you're
married? This way you know if your future is even going to address them.
Let's face it, sex plays a big role in marriage. Just like you
should discuss children, religion, and where you both want to live
before tying the knot, sex is too big a part of a relationship to leave
to chance. You are free to agree or disagree with my 5 reasons but you
know deep down this is the truth.
What do you say ????
